RSHE
RSHE is taught to make sure that young people can make informed decisions about their health, wellbeing and relationships, in a sensitive way that is age-appropriate.
A Guide for Parents and Carers
At Great Marlow School, our Relationships, Sex and Health Education (RSHE) curriculum helps young people develop the knowledge and understanding they need to manage relationships, look after their health and wellbeing, stay safe and prepare for adult life. Schools in England are required to teach Relationships and Sex Education and Health Education as part of the statutory curriculum.
At Great Marlow School, we recognise that parents and carers have an important role in helping children develop their values and understanding of relationships, health and growing up. We are therefore aiming to be open about what is taught and the resources that we use to support teaching.
1. Why have we provided these resources?
This guide accompanies a representative sample of lessons from our secondary RSHE programme.
The sample has been selected to help parents and carers see:
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- the kinds of resources students encounter in RSHE lessons;
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- how topics are approached in an age-appropriate way;
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- how learning develops as students move through secondary school;
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- how potentially sensitive subjects are handled;
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- how RSHE supports safeguarding and preparation for adult life.
The lessons shown are examples rather than the complete curriculum. Individual schools determine how their RSHE curriculum is organised and may adapt resources to reflect the needs of their students and school community.
2. What does the curriculum cover?
Across the RSHE curriculum, students learn about relationships, physical and mental health, personal safety, life online and the knowledge and skills they will need as they become increasingly independent.
The curriculum is “spiralled”. This means that learning is progressive: students establish important foundations when they are younger and return to topics with greater depth and complexity as they mature. For example, in Year 7, the topic of consent focuses on boundaries in friendships whereas, by year 10, consent is looked at in the context of intimate relationships and the law because this is more appropriate at this stage of a student’s learning and development.
Relationships
Students learn about areas such as:
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- friendships and healthy relationships;
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- respect, boundaries and consent;
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- communication and managing conflict;
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- recognising unhealthy or abusive behaviour;
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- stereotypes, sexism and misogyny;
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- intimate and adult relationships.
Staying Safe
The curriculum helps students recognise and respond to risks including:
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- pressure and coercion;
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- sexual harassment and abuse;
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- exploitation;
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- harmful online behaviour;
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- sharing sexual images;
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- pornography and its potential influence;
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- misinformation, deepfakes and emerging technologies.
Health and Wellbeing
Students also develop knowledge about:
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- mental and emotional wellbeing;
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- physical health and healthy lifestyles;
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- alcohol, drugs and other risk-taking behaviours;
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- puberty and sexual health;
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- contraception and sexually transmitted infections;
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- accessing health services and seeking help.
The precise order and timing of lessons will vary between schools. Topics are taught at an appropriate stage and build on students’ previous learning.
3. What does an RSHE lesson look like?
3. What does an RSHE lesson look like?
How lessons work
RSHE lessons are structured learning experiences. Although individual lessons vary, students will typically encounter a combination of:
1. Learning objectives
Students are told what they are learning and why the topic matters.
2. Previous learning
Teachers may revisit earlier knowledge so that students can make connections and build their understanding.
3. Teacher explanation
Teachers introduce accurate information, important concepts and key vocabulary.
4. Activities and discussion
Students might consider scenarios, discuss different viewpoints, watch a short video, complete an activity or apply their learning to a fictional situation.
5. Questions
Students have opportunities to ask questions. Teachers respond in a factual, appropriate and sensitive way.
6. Review and reflection
Activities such as quizzes, questions or short written tasks allow students and teachers to check understanding.
A safe environment for learning: students are not expected to disclose or discuss their own personal experiences.
Scenarios and examples allow students to explore situations at a safe distance rather than talking about their own lives.
Teachers establish expectations for respectful discussion, and sensitive subjects are approached carefully and in an age-appropriate way.
RSHE also has an important safeguarding role. Learning can help students recognise when something is unsafe or unhealthy and understand how and where to seek help.
If a pupil makes a safeguarding disclosure during or following a lesson, the school’s normal safeguarding procedures apply.
4. Why does my child need to learn about these subjects at school?
RSHE is a statutory part of the secondary curriculum in England. It provides students with reliable information about relationships, health, safety and adult life and helps them recognise risks and know where to seek support.
5. How do you make sure subjects are age appropriate?
Learning is sequenced so that students encounter topics at an appropriate stage. Earlier learning establishes foundations such as friendship, respect, boundaries and safety. More complex issues are introduced as students become older. Resources are sourced from the PSHE Association and UniFrog, the contents of which are created by teachers.
6. Will students be asked about their own relationships or experiences?
No. Students should not be required to disclose personal experiences. Lessons use fictional scenarios, discussion and other activities that allow students to explore issues without talking about their private lives.
7. Why are subjects such as pornography, misogyny and harmful online behaviour included?
Young people can encounter potentially harmful content and behaviours both online and offline. RSHE gives students opportunities to examine these issues critically, understand potential harms, recognise unacceptable behaviour and know how to seek help.
8. Can I see what is being taught?
At Great Marlow School, we aim to be transparent with parents and carers about our RSHE curriculum and the materials used. The resources accompanying this guide provide a representative sample of the lessons available within this programme. Parents and carers should contact Great Marlow School should they wish to see specific resources or wish to discuss the contents.
9. Can I withdraw my child from RSHE?
There is no parental right to withdraw a child from Relationships Education, Health Education or relevant content within the National Curriculum for Science.
However, parents have the right to request that their child is withdrawn from some or all of the sex education delivered as part of statutory RSE, other than content also included within the science curriculum.
Parents who are considering withdrawal should contact Great Marlow School and consult our RSE/RSHE policy for further information.
10. Exploring the sample resources
The accompanying sample lessons have been chosen to demonstrate the breadth, progression and teaching approach of the secondary RSHE programme.
They include examples from different year groups and different areas of RSHE.
As you look through them, you may find it helpful to consider:
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- What are students being taught?
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- Why is this learning appropriate at this stage?
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- How does the lesson help students make safe, healthy and informed decisions?
For information about exactly how RSHE is delivered at Great Marlow School, please contact us directly.
What topics are taught in RSHE across all year groups?
Year 7
| Theme | Topic | |
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| 1 | Ready for Change | Mental Health |
| 2 | Changing Friendships | Relationships |
| 3 | What Makes a Healthy Relationship? | Relationships |
| 4 | Recognising & Preventing Bullying | Relationships |
| 5 | What is Mental Health (incl social media)? | Mental Health |
| 6 | Growing Up – Physical & Mental Changes | Health |
| 7 | Understanding Menstruation | Health |
| 8 | Online Gaming, Grooming & Addictions | Online Safety |
| 9 | Staying Safe and Friendships Online | Online Safety |
| 10 | Online Safety – Digital Footprints & Sharing Images | Online Safety |
| 11 | What is Diversity? | Relationships |
| 12 | Coping with Change: Bereavment, Divorce and Separation | Relationships |
| 13 | Energy Drinks & Caffeine | Health |
| 14 | Smoking & Vaping | Health |
| 15 | Where does my money go? | Financial Wellbeing |
| 16 | Knife Crime & Safety | Safeguarding |
| 17 | Avoiding Unsafe Groups | Safeguarding |
| 18 | FGM & The Law | Safeguarding |
| 19 | Ready for Change | Mental Health |
Year 8
| Topic | Theme | |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Challenging Gender Stereotypes | Relationships |
| 2 | Sexuality and Gender Identity | Relationships |
| 3 | British Values (including Antisemitism) | Relationships |
| 4 | Boundaries, Privacy & Consent | Consent |
| 5 | Mental Health: Talking About Our Emotions | Mental Health |
| 6 | Self-Esteem & Coping Strategies | Mental Health |
| 7 | Understanding Marriage | Relationships |
| 8 | Spotting Unhealthy Relationships (incl. online) | Safeguarding |
| 9 | Overcoming Conflict and Finding Forgiveness | Relationships |
| 10 | Manosphere: Online Influence & Healthy R/ships | Relationships |
| 11 | Media Literacy: Interpreting Information Online | Online Safety |
| 12 | Smart Spending in a Digital World | Financial Wellbeing |
| 13 | Gambling: The Facts | Financial Wellbeing |
| 14 | Addictive Substances: Alcohol | Health |
| 15 | Managing Risk: Personal Safety | Safeguarding |
| 16 | Exercising for Mental and Physical Wellbeing | Health |
| 17 | Taking Responsibility for Physical Health incl Sleep | Health |
| 18 | Developing Your Leadership Skills | Relationships |
| 19 | Challenging Gender Stereotypes | Relationships |
Year 9
| Topic | Theme | |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Recognising & Preventing Discrimination | Relationships |
| 2 | Consent & The Law | Consent |
| 3 | Practising Safe Sex | Relationships |
| 4 | STIs & HIV/AIDS | Health |
| 5 | Sex, Relationships and the Media | Relationships |
| 6 | Mental Health & Developing Coping Strategies | Mental Health |
| 7 | Social Media and Mental Health | Online Safety |
| 8 | Social Influences – Tackling Peer Pressure | Relationships |
| 9 | Relationships & Conflict | Relationships |
| 10 | What is Good Communication? | Relationships |
| 11 | Family Life: Parenthood & Caring | Relationships |
| 12 | Financial Choices, Budgeting & Debt | Financial Wellbeing |
| 13 | Social Influences, Young People and Gangs | Safeguarding |
| 14 | Addictive Substances: Legal and Illegal Drugs including Alcohol | Health |
| 15 | Healthy Lifestyle and Balance | Health |
| 16 | Health Services, Self-Examination and Vaccination | Health |
| 17 | FGM, Virginity Testing and Hymenoplasty | Safeguarding |
Year 10 Form Tutors
| Topic | Theme | |
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| 1 | Mental Health – New Challenges | Mental Health |
| 2 | Reframing Neg Thinking & Getting Help | Mental Health |
| 3 | The Sleep Factor | Health |
| 4 | Healthy Lifestyle | Health |
| 5 | Health: Services and Support | Health |
| 6 | An Intro to Body Image | Mental Health |
| 7 | Recognising Our Strengths | Mental Health |
| 8 | Social Influence & Pressure | Relationships |
| 9 | Online Safety: Protecting Data | Online Safety |
| 10 | Peer-On-Peer Abuse | Safeguarding |
| 11 | Sharing Sexual Images | Online Safety |
| 12 | Gambling: Risks, Consequences and Safety | Financial Wellbeing |
| 13 | Planning and Organising – Revising Effectively | Health |
| 14 | Challenging Prejudice & Discrimination | Relationships |
| 15 | Hate Crime in the UK | Relationships |
| 16 | Managing Risk – Unsafe and Emergency Situations | Safeguarding |
| 17 | Can You Afford Adult Life? | Financial Wellbeing |
| 18 | New Challenges | Mental Health |
Year 10 Extra RSHE Curriculum
| Topic | Theme | |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Sexuality and Gender: Coming Out | Relationships |
| 2 | Relationship Milestones | Relationships |
| 3 | The Impact of Relationships | Relationships |
| 4 | Ending Relationships | Relationships |
| 5 | Mental Health Illnesses | Mental Health |
| 6 | Good Coping Strategies & Seeking Help | Mental Health |
| 7 | Changing Relationships: Managing Grief | Relationships |
| 8 | Choosing the Right Contraception | Health |
| 9 | Understanding Pregnancy: Your Choices | Health |
| 10 | Cancer – Self-Checking | Health |
| 11 | Gender Equality – The Benefits Of + VAWG | Relationships |
| 12 | Online Influencers & Healthy Masculinity | Relationships |
| 13 | Online Groups & Radicalisation | Safeguarding |
| 14 | Pornography & Influence on Misogyny | Relationships |
| 15 | Relationships, Abuse & Sexual Assault | Consent |
| 16 | Honour-Based Violence (if retained) | Safeguarding |
| 17 | Health Choices: Blood, Organ and Stem Cell Donation | Health |
| 18 | Health-Related Choices: Aesthetic Procedures | Health |
Year 11 Form Tutors
| Topic | Theme | |
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| 1 | Revision, Stress and Performance | Mental Health |
| 2 | Recreational Drug Use | Health |
| 3 | Drugs & Alcohol – Risk | Health |
| 4 | Drugs and Alcohol – Addiction & Help-Seeking | Health |
| 5 | Violence, Aggression and Anti-Social Behaviour | Safeguarding |
| 6 | Online Safety: Extremism & Misinformation | Safeguarding |
| 7 | First Aid – CPR | Health |
| 8 | First Aid – Defibrillators | Health |
| 9 | First Aid – Bleeding | Health |
| 10 | Know Your Rights – Equality Act 2010 | Relationships |
| 11 | Rights and Responsibilities: Marriage and Civil Partnerships | Relationships |
| 12 | Financial Choices: Managing Finances in the World of Work | Financial Wellbeing |
Year 11 Extra RSHE Curriculum
| Toplc | Theme | |
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| 1 | Preventing and Treating STIs | Health |
| 2 | Understanding Consent and Intimacy | Consent |
| 3 | Alcohol, Drugs & Sex | Relationships |
| 4 | Unhealthy Relationships: Managing Conflict | Relationships |
| 5 | Taking Other People’s Perspectives | Relationships |
| 6 | Unhealthy Relationships – Domestic Abuse | Safeguarding |
| 7 | Unhealthy Relationships – Stalking | Safeguarding |
| 8 | AI Chatbots | Online Safety |
| 9 | Deepfakes | Online Safety |
| 10 | Online Reputation & Digital Footprints | Online Safety |
| 11 | Preventing and Treating STIs | Health |
| 12 | Understanding Consent and Intimacy | Consent |