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RSHE

RSHE is taught to make sure that young people can make informed decisions about their health, wellbeing and relationships, in a sensitive way that is age-appropriate.

A Guide for Parents and Carers

At Great Marlow School, our Relationships, Sex and Health Education (RSHE) curriculum helps young people develop the knowledge and understanding they need to manage relationships, look after their health and wellbeing, stay safe and prepare for adult life. Schools in England are required to teach Relationships and Sex Education and Health Education as part of the statutory curriculum.

At Great Marlow School, we recognise that parents and carers have an important role in helping children develop their values and understanding of relationships, health and growing up. We are therefore aiming to be open about what is taught and the resources that we use to support teaching.

This guide accompanies a representative sample of lessons from our secondary RSHE programme.

The sample has been selected to help parents and carers see:

    • the kinds of resources students encounter in RSHE lessons;

    • how topics are approached in an age-appropriate way;

    • how learning develops as students move through secondary school;

    • how potentially sensitive subjects are handled;

    • how RSHE supports safeguarding and preparation for adult life.

The lessons shown are examples rather than the complete curriculum. Individual schools determine how their RSHE curriculum is organised and may adapt resources to reflect the needs of their students and school community.

Across the RSHE curriculum, students learn about relationships, physical and mental health, personal safety, life online and the knowledge and skills they will need as they become increasingly independent.

The curriculum is “spiralled”. This means that learning is progressive: students establish important foundations when they are younger and return to topics with greater depth and complexity as they mature. For example, in Year 7, the topic of consent focuses on boundaries in friendships whereas, by year 10, consent is looked at in the context of intimate relationships and the law because this is more appropriate at this stage of a student’s learning and development.

Relationships

Students learn about areas such as:

    • friendships and healthy relationships;

    • respect, boundaries and consent;

    • communication and managing conflict;

    • recognising unhealthy or abusive behaviour;

    • stereotypes, sexism and misogyny;

    • intimate and adult relationships.

Staying Safe

The curriculum helps students recognise and respond to risks including:

    • pressure and coercion;

    • sexual harassment and abuse;

    • exploitation;

    • harmful online behaviour;

    • sharing sexual images;

    • pornography and its potential influence;

    • misinformation, deepfakes and emerging technologies.

Health and Wellbeing

Students also develop knowledge about:

    • mental and emotional wellbeing;

    • physical health and healthy lifestyles;

    • alcohol, drugs and other risk-taking behaviours;

    • puberty and sexual health;

    • contraception and sexually transmitted infections;

    • accessing health services and seeking help.

The precise order and timing of lessons will vary between schools. Topics are taught at an appropriate stage and build on students’ previous learning.

3. What does an RSHE lesson look like?

How lessons work

RSHE lessons are structured learning experiences. Although individual lessons vary, students will typically encounter a combination of:

1. Learning objectives
Students are told what they are learning and why the topic matters.

2. Previous learning
Teachers may revisit earlier knowledge so that students can make connections and build their understanding.

3. Teacher explanation
Teachers introduce accurate information, important concepts and key vocabulary.

4. Activities and discussion
Students might consider scenarios, discuss different viewpoints, watch a short video, complete an activity or apply their learning to a fictional situation.

5. Questions
Students have opportunities to ask questions. Teachers respond in a factual, appropriate and sensitive way.

6. Review and reflection
Activities such as quizzes, questions or short written tasks allow students and teachers to check understanding.

A safe environment for learning: students are not expected to disclose or discuss their own personal experiences.

Scenarios and examples allow students to explore situations at a safe distance rather than talking about their own lives.

Teachers establish expectations for respectful discussion, and sensitive subjects are approached carefully and in an age-appropriate way.

RSHE also has an important safeguarding role. Learning can help students recognise when something is unsafe or unhealthy and understand how and where to seek help.

If a pupil makes a safeguarding disclosure during or following a lesson, the school’s normal safeguarding procedures apply.

RSHE is a statutory part of the secondary curriculum in England. It provides students with reliable information about relationships, health, safety and adult life and helps them recognise risks and know where to seek support.

Learning is sequenced so that students encounter topics at an appropriate stage. Earlier learning establishes foundations such as friendship, respect, boundaries and safety. More complex issues are introduced as students become older. Resources are sourced from the PSHE Association and UniFrog, the contents of which are created by teachers.

No. Students should not be required to disclose personal experiences. Lessons use fictional scenarios, discussion and other activities that allow students to explore issues without talking about their private lives.

Young people can encounter potentially harmful content and behaviours both online and offline. RSHE gives students opportunities to examine these issues critically, understand potential harms, recognise unacceptable behaviour and know how to seek help.

At Great Marlow School, we aim to be transparent with parents and carers about our RSHE curriculum and the materials used. The resources accompanying this guide provide a representative sample of the lessons available within this programme. Parents and carers should contact Great Marlow School should they wish to see specific resources or wish to discuss the contents.

There is no parental right to withdraw a child from Relationships Education, Health Education or relevant content within the National Curriculum for Science.

However, parents have the right to request that their child is withdrawn from some or all of the sex education delivered as part of statutory RSE, other than content also included within the science curriculum.

Parents who are considering withdrawal should contact Great Marlow School and consult our RSE/RSHE policy for further information.

The accompanying sample lessons have been chosen to demonstrate the breadth, progression and teaching approach of the secondary RSHE programme.

They include examples from different year groups and different areas of RSHE.

As you look through them, you may find it helpful to consider:

    • What are students being taught?

    • Why is this learning appropriate at this stage?

    • How does the lesson help students make safe, healthy and informed decisions?

For information about exactly how RSHE is delivered at Great Marlow School, please contact us directly.

Year 7


Theme Topic
1 Ready for Change Mental Health
2 Changing Friendships Relationships
3 What Makes a Healthy Relationship? Relationships
4 Recognising & Preventing Bullying Relationships
5 What is Mental Health (incl social media)? Mental Health
6 Growing Up – Physical & Mental Changes Health
7 Understanding Menstruation Health
8 Online Gaming, Grooming & Addictions Online Safety
9 Staying Safe and Friendships Online Online Safety
10 Online Safety – Digital Footprints & Sharing Images Online Safety
11 What is Diversity? Relationships
12 Coping with Change: Bereavment, Divorce and Separation Relationships
13 Energy Drinks & Caffeine Health
14 Smoking & Vaping Health
15 Where does my money go? Financial Wellbeing
16 Knife Crime & Safety Safeguarding
17 Avoiding Unsafe Groups Safeguarding
18 FGM & The Law Safeguarding
19 Ready for Change Mental Health

Year 8


Topic Theme
1 Challenging Gender Stereotypes Relationships
2 Sexuality and Gender Identity Relationships
3 British Values (including Antisemitism) Relationships
4 Boundaries, Privacy & Consent Consent
5 Mental Health: Talking About Our Emotions Mental Health
6 Self-Esteem & Coping Strategies Mental Health
7 Understanding Marriage Relationships
8 Spotting Unhealthy Relationships (incl. online) Safeguarding
9 Overcoming Conflict and Finding Forgiveness Relationships
10 Manosphere: Online Influence & Healthy R/ships Relationships
11 Media Literacy: Interpreting Information Online Online Safety
12 Smart Spending in a Digital World Financial Wellbeing
13 Gambling: The Facts Financial Wellbeing
14 Addictive Substances: Alcohol Health
15 Managing Risk: Personal Safety Safeguarding
16 Exercising for Mental and Physical Wellbeing Health
17 Taking Responsibility for Physical Health incl Sleep Health
18 Developing Your Leadership Skills Relationships
19 Challenging Gender Stereotypes Relationships

Year 9


Topic Theme
1 Recognising & Preventing Discrimination Relationships
2 Consent & The Law Consent
3 Practising Safe Sex Relationships
4 STIs & HIV/AIDS Health
5 Sex, Relationships and the Media Relationships
6 Mental Health & Developing Coping Strategies Mental Health
7 Social Media and Mental Health Online Safety
8 Social Influences – Tackling Peer Pressure Relationships
9 Relationships & Conflict Relationships
10 What is Good Communication? Relationships
11 Family Life: Parenthood & Caring Relationships
12 Financial Choices, Budgeting & Debt Financial Wellbeing
13 Social Influences, Young People and Gangs Safeguarding
14 Addictive Substances: Legal and Illegal Drugs including Alcohol Health
15 Healthy Lifestyle and Balance Health
16 Health Services, Self-Examination and Vaccination Health
17 FGM, Virginity Testing and Hymenoplasty Safeguarding

Year 10 Form Tutors


Topic Theme
1 Mental Health – New Challenges Mental Health
2 Reframing Neg Thinking & Getting Help Mental Health
3 The Sleep Factor Health
4 Healthy Lifestyle Health
5 Health: Services and Support Health
6 An Intro to Body Image Mental Health
7 Recognising Our Strengths Mental Health
8 Social Influence & Pressure Relationships
9 Online Safety: Protecting Data Online Safety
10 Peer-On-Peer Abuse Safeguarding
11 Sharing Sexual Images Online Safety
12 Gambling: Risks, Consequences and Safety Financial Wellbeing
13 Planning and Organising – Revising Effectively Health
14 Challenging Prejudice & Discrimination Relationships
15 Hate Crime in the UK Relationships
16 Managing Risk – Unsafe and Emergency Situations Safeguarding
17 Can You Afford Adult Life? Financial Wellbeing
18 New Challenges Mental Health

Year 10 Extra RSHE Curriculum


Topic Theme
1 Sexuality and Gender: Coming Out Relationships
2 Relationship Milestones Relationships
3 The Impact of Relationships Relationships
4 Ending Relationships Relationships
5 Mental Health Illnesses Mental Health
6 Good Coping Strategies & Seeking Help Mental Health
7 Changing Relationships: Managing Grief Relationships
8 Choosing the Right Contraception Health
9 Understanding Pregnancy: Your Choices Health
10 Cancer – Self-Checking Health
11 Gender Equality – The Benefits Of + VAWG Relationships
12 Online Influencers & Healthy Masculinity Relationships
13 Online Groups & Radicalisation Safeguarding
14 Pornography & Influence on Misogyny Relationships
15 Relationships, Abuse & Sexual Assault Consent
16 Honour-Based Violence (if retained) Safeguarding
17 Health Choices: Blood, Organ and Stem Cell Donation Health
18 Health-Related Choices: Aesthetic Procedures Health

Year 11 Form Tutors


Topic Theme
1 Revision, Stress and Performance Mental Health
2 Recreational Drug Use Health
3 Drugs & Alcohol – Risk Health
4 Drugs and Alcohol – Addiction & Help-Seeking Health
5 Violence, Aggression and Anti-Social Behaviour Safeguarding
6 Online Safety: Extremism & Misinformation Safeguarding
7 First Aid – CPR Health
8 First Aid – Defibrillators Health
9 First Aid – Bleeding Health
10 Know Your Rights – Equality Act 2010 Relationships
11 Rights and Responsibilities: Marriage and Civil Partnerships Relationships
12 Financial Choices: Managing Finances in the World of Work Financial Wellbeing

Year 11 Extra RSHE Curriculum


Toplc Theme
1 Preventing and Treating STIs Health
2 Understanding Consent and Intimacy Consent
3 Alcohol, Drugs & Sex Relationships
4 Unhealthy Relationships: Managing Conflict Relationships
5 Taking Other People’s Perspectives Relationships
6 Unhealthy Relationships – Domestic Abuse Safeguarding
7 Unhealthy Relationships – Stalking Safeguarding
8 AI Chatbots Online Safety
9 Deepfakes Online Safety
10 Online Reputation & Digital Footprints Online Safety
11 Preventing and Treating STIs Health
12 Understanding Consent and Intimacy Consent